We made it to Heredia a day earlier than scheduled…..we'd had enough rain and thought we would spend our last three days in Costa Rica doing a little sight seeing near San Jose. We were so pleased when we found our Bed & Breakfast, it was just as I had pictured it and we were welcomed with open arms and warm hearts.
Our room was in the front part of the house and had a private entrance out to the roof/deck. It is here that we were enjoying our first evening. We had been talking with other guests and when they left for their dinner reservations Ray and I had the deck all to ourselves. I was working on my latest blog titled "Boas, Pumas and Spiders…OH MY!" and Ray was reading quietly. I'll get back to finishing that blog sometime in the future. The peaceful quiet of the evening was shattered when a man's voice commanded that we "shut up and do as you are told". My first thought was that Manual (the owner's assistant) was playing a joke on us. When we turned to face the sound we quickly realized that it wasn't a joke. We faced a man dressed all in black, black gloves and a black ski mask…..only his eyes were showing……his eyes and a very shiny gun pointing directly at us. His right arm outstretched, balanced by his left hand. He voiced his command once again and Ray said we weren't going anywhere. Twice Ray said "no we won't go"……..that is when I took Ray's arm and said "yes we will go, please let's do as he says". I led the way into the house and started down the staircase to the main floor. Stairs are difficult for me and I wasn't moving fast enough for our "bandito" who jabbed Ray in the back with his gun…."faster, faster"…..I picked up my step not feeling the pain in my knees. We entered the parlor only to find the others on the floor. There were six of us. Laurie the owner, Manual, Frank a friend of theirs and Martha…Franks sister from Nicaragua. Frank lives in San Jose and Martha had been visiting….she had just come over to say good bye as she was headed home the next morning. I only give these details because they, just as Ray and I, were not really scheduled to be there that night. But then again my belief system tells me that we were ALL supposed to be there. The guests that had gone to dinner had just checked in that afternoon…..a family from CT….a couple and their two daughters.
Our bandito told us to get on the floor with the others. I don't exactly know when I finally realized that there were three banditos all dressed alike and all carrying a gun. They carried walkie talkies/phones and it was very apparent that one or possibly two more were outside of the house one giving commands. The sound of the crackling static of the phones is a sound that will most likely always send shivers up the back of my head. Only one appeared to speak some English…..he threw a roll of duct tape at Manual and told him to bind our ankles and wrists together. Manual, his hands trembling, did as he was told…..all the while repeating "please don't talk….I'm sorry…I'm sorry". He was so frightened and they seemed to pick on him…..kicking him several times in the head after they had tied him too. I repeated the prayer for protection, I prayed that no one would be hurt and prayed that the family wouldn't return back before it was all over. I looked into Ray's eyes and told him that I loved him. Frank and Martha never spoke a word….they laid on the floor with there heads down. We all laid on the floor…..all except Ray. He sat straight up and watched two of them come in and out of the room with all our belongings. They were searching every room in the house for anything they could sell on the street and any money. They were becoming more and more agitated as time went on because they apparently were not finding enough of what they wanted. Ray finally dropped on his side. I asked him later…..much later why he did and he said that he decided that sitting there looking defiant was probably not the thing to do. He also said that the longer he saw the gun pointing at him the bigger it got. Good decision! At one point one of the men took Ray's hand and held a 10 inch chef's knife to his fingers (years of food business) and threatened to cut off his fingers if we didn't come up with more money. They picked Laurie up off the floor and took her up the stairs…looking for a safe. She told them she didn't have a safe and that they had all the money there was. We found out later that the safe was actually in our room. I feared for Laurie's life as she argued with them.
Eventually they gave up but not before they stole all passports, all identification, money, credit cards, laptops, cell phones, video cameras, digital cameras, purses, backpacks, money belt and other items that only meant something to the individual they took them from. Last October I had a pipe and carrying bag made for me by the artist Jim Hawk in Sedona, AZ……it is sacred and very special to me. I had carried it to Costa Rica for our land blessing…..loosing this beautiful instrument broke my heart. They told us "no police, no police" and left. How long they were there….I can't guess….it seemed like hours, but I'm sure was more like 15 to 20 minutes.
The rest of the night was filled with phone calls…..cancelling credit cards, debit cards, and calling our loved ones. Three different police departments were involved: the Belen Police who are the local police….The Crime Investigation Department and the Policia Turistica. The latter was the most helpful to Ray and I. They followed Manual, Ray and I to the Crime division the next day and spoke in our behalf….getting the process started. Monday we spent three hours at the American Embassy applying for our temporary passports. The process with the police and the Embassy was painless….not at all like some of the stories you hear about people getting stuck in foreign countries. The temporary passports did cost $200 however and that was painful! The family that was out to dinner during the robbery……they had a family meeting and voted to loan us $200 to help us get out of the country! These kind people had lost a lot of their belongings and money as well and still wanted to help us out. Our daughter wired money too and it ended up taking every bit of it to get us home. If you visit Costa Rica remember to put aside $26 each to pay your exit tax.
On Sunday afternoon (the day after the incident) the six of us shared lunch together. Manual threw sausage, chicken and steaks on the grill along with fresh eggplant and carrots. Laurie made pasta with fresh tomatoes and oregano from her garden…..all the food was delicious. Laurie said the blessing and at the end asked that beautiful Costa Rica not be hurt by this experience, that we bless the country and her people. I believe that our souls will be forever connected.
Many thoughts and feelings have embraced me over the days following the incident and what I have discovered is that my faith was tested…..or perhaps a better way to phrase it is "my faith was validated"! I am very comfortable in the knowing that no matter what happens……all is well. I am a spiritual being living a human experience and it's one hell of a ride. It is a wonderful world!